Building a Reality-Based Relationship: The Six Stages of Modern MarriageIn 1967, as a novice marriage and family therapist counseling a growing number of troubled spouses living in unhappy marriages, Dr. Liberty Kovacs realized a need for a workable, realistic model for successful marital therapy. Drawing on her forty years of professional experience, real-world cases, and studies, Dr. Kovacs shares her model for the modern marriage. Kovacs maps the journey shared by couples across six unique and all-important marital stages: honeymoon, expectation, power struggle, seven-year-itch, reconciliation, and acceptance. Along the way, they develop a clearer understanding of their identities as individuals and of their fit together. Dr. Kovacs has used her powerful marriage model with thousands of couples with an overwhelmingly positive response, and in this invaluable and interactive workbook, she delivers all the tools you and your partner need to:
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Contents
Love and Other Difficulties | 1 |
The Apple Doesnt Fall Far from the Tree | 14 |
Assumptions Are Deadly | 32 |
The Honeymooners | 47 |
Great Expectations | 61 |
The SevenYear Itch | 91 |
Reconciliation Viva la Difference | 106 |
About the Author | 123 |
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